What To Do When There’s Not Enough Money to Pay All the Bills – Part One

What to Do When There's Not Enough Money to Pay all the Bills

I hope that you are never in the position where there’s not enough money to pay all of the bills, but sometimes the unthinkable happens.  It may be the result of a job layoff, a period of disability or illness, divorce, or just poor financial choices.  If you’re about to tune me out because you don’t think this applies to you, please read on!   You may have a friend of family member that could use this important information now or in the near future.      

The most important thing to remember in a situation when there’s not enough money to go around is pay your necessities first: Food, Shelter, Transportation, and Clothing.  If you have these four things taken care of, you’re in a better frame of mind to make the proper decisions to deal with the budgetary shortfall.

First, before you buy anything else, buy food!  Do not pay Visa before feeding yourself and your family.  Yes, your menu is going to be more of hot dogs and mac & cheese than steak and lobster, but be sure your family is fed before you spend a dime elsewhere.  This also means spending your food dollars wisely at grocery store and eating at home.  If you can’t afford to pay all of your bills, you should NOT be eating out at restaurants.

Second, take care of your shelter, which includes paying the house payment or rent, home owners insurance, and the electric and water bill. (PS, the cable bill is NOT a necessity, so you may need to shut it off temporarily.) It’s very hard to remain calm and make rational money decisions if you’re worried about foreclosure, eviction, or the lights being turned off.  Unfortunately, I have seen people get this backwards.  They will be current on all of their “little bills” (various credit cards, student loans, medical bills) but be behind on the house payment.  Please do NOT make this mistake!

Third, make sure that your transportation is taken care of: car payment, auto insurance, fuel, and necessary repairs.  It’s hard to get to work to earn a living if your vehicle gets repossessed or you lack money to buy gas to put in the tank.  Maybe you are lucky enough to have access to good public transportation that you can utilize.  Be sure to reserve enough money for a bus or subway pass before you pay the Home Depot or Victoria’s Secret credit card!

Fourth, if you or your children really need clothing, then spend a reasonable amount to take care of your needs.  Most of us have plenty of clothing to get us through six months to a year of living on a bare-bones budget if we had to.  However, if your child’s tennis shoes are being held together with duct tape, by all means, go buy your kid some reasonably priced shoes before you pay the past due bill to the dentist.

When your household is in a negative cash flow situation, you need to take action to “stop the bleeding.”  Things to consider: Can you or your spouse work some overtime, get a part-time job on evenings or weekends, or monetize a skill or hobby?  Can you look for a cheaper housing alternative?  Is your car payment more than you can afford?  Can you trade your vehicle in for something with cheaper payments?  Can your family make due with one car instead of two?  Do you have a “luxury item” with (or without) a payment attached to it that you can sell to free up some cash, such as a boat, motorcycle, or ATV?

Remember, when there’s not enough to pay all of the bills, be sure to take care of your neccessities first: Food, Shelter, Transportation, and Clothing.  Then take a hard look at your expenses and income to see what actions you can take to balance your budget.

Coming soon: What To Do When There’s Not Enough Money to Pay All the Bills, Part Two. I’ll be discussing how to take what’s left over after taking care of your necessities and paying your remaining creditors.

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Christine Luken

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Dee - April 23, 2014

I am grateful that I’ve never had to use these tips. How stressful!!

Robin (Masshole Mommy) - April 23, 2014

You definitely gave me a lot to think about. Thankfully I am not in that situation, but should it ever arise, this is helpful advice.

Elizabeth@ Food Ramblings - April 23, 2014

Great tips– everyone goes through those times when money is too tight!

Jen V - April 23, 2014

Money got a lot tighter for our family after I had surgery earlier this year and was unable to work. So I appreciate the tips!

Lisa - April 23, 2014

I think this is great advice. Thank you

Jennifer B - April 23, 2014

This is helpful information for those who find themselves in a major crisis!

Chrishelle - April 23, 2014

With our economy being in the toilet, this is definitely needed advice. We are blessed enough to not need it at this point, but situations can change quickly. Thanks for the tips.

Debbie Denny - April 23, 2014

Very good and important advice. Useful in this time and age.

Lisa Jones - April 23, 2014

I Totally Agree With You Provide The Basics Before Paying Credit Cards I Been There Thank You For The Great Tips!

Mama to 5 BLessings - April 23, 2014

what wonderful tips and suggestions. The basics are essential!

Wendy - April 23, 2014

man, great advice for these finanacial times! I think it’s time I give Ramsey a look!

Mariana - April 23, 2014

This is really great advice! I have to admit we often live paycheck to paycheck, but we definitely always pay the mortgage and have food on the table.

Pam - April 23, 2014

These are great tips. With the economy the way it has been, many people need this advice.

Amy Honious - April 23, 2014

Wow-great advice! We had 4 children in 6 yrs when young and definitely went through some hard times-it can be handled, but like you said, it needs to be handled smartly! I have some relatives and friends who just cannot grasp this concept. Thanks for spelling it out so concisely!

Danielle @ We Have It All - April 23, 2014

I’ve been in this situation more times than I’d like to admit and this is very good advise. After those 4 important things are taken care of, I like to rely on Freecycle for our material needs, whether it’s clothing or household supplies or whatever.

Amy Desrosiers - April 23, 2014

You definitely hit the nail on the hit with prioritizing! I know quite a few people who could use the tips!

Lia Moore - Full Circle Eventi Design - April 23, 2014

GREAT advice! Especially for newlyweds! I should find a way to incorporate these into a pillar for bride consultations!

Lois Alter Mark - April 23, 2014

Thankfully I’ve never had to think about this but they’re such good tips for prioritizing what to pay first. I hope no one here ever needs them either!

Tina - April 23, 2014

This advice is wonderful. Remembering the 4 Walls is a wonderful way to put financial priorities into perspective. I can hardly wait for Part 2!!

Debi - April 23, 2014

I am just getting out of this situation. It is so hard to stay focused and keep from being overwhlemed.

Stacie @ The Divine Miss Mommy - April 23, 2014

Great tips. You are absolutely right about buying food first.

Liz Mays - April 24, 2014

Excellent advice. I’m sure it’s the easy thing to not make the biggest payment you have to make – the mortgage, but clearly that’s the wrong move.

Maria Oller - April 24, 2014

great tips, We often have been against the ropes but never actually behind on any payments.

Annie {Stowed Stuff} - April 24, 2014

I hope I’m never in this kind of a situation, but you share some great tips.

Aly Mashrah - April 24, 2014

This is such an important list! I can’t tell you how many times we’ve ran out of food in my house growing up because we were behind on bills.


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